Wednesday, November 29, 2006
♥ Dr. Love... Where Are You???
Can people fall out of love? I guess so. Lately people around me has been having problems which I myself can't figure out or give suggestions other than hang in there or be calm and think wisely on the decision that you are going to make.
First case:
My dearest best friend, Elle really likes this guy. But she knows that she can't have him. He is kind of more or less taken. But according to my friend, Elle, he gives hints at the same time has someone special. She has tried her best to ignore him but she can't seem to do that. She sometimes feel awkward and this feelings show. Like on one day, she tried to ignore his presence but the guy himself makes her notice him in every way. And on other days, he'd ignore her completely!
I adviced her to just forget about him when she told me about the girlfriend kind of knows her presence and her feelings towards her boyfriend. The girlfriend would always put on the serious and stern face whenever their paths cross. Sometimes the jelingan confuses my friend here. How does she know about her feelings towards her boyfriend? I mean is there any chance that the guy told her girlfriend about my friend here? In a way, I think it's best for my friend to forget him. She even thought of changing departments since she said that it is hard to act normal when he is around. I can only say that I wish for the best for you and hang in there.
Second case:
Long distance relationships seldom last. I was in this situation once(though it we were not that far away) but I kind of knew at that time that it would go no where but I just ignored the feeling and went on with it. But my friend - R's case is different. She got engaged before going separate ways since her fiance furthered his studies overseas.
The first 2 years were okay but R said that starting the 3rd year, communication with her fiance seemed to thin off. From receiving calls every week, it became only once a month and then once every 2 months and then only on her birthday - which on that year it became belated (a week later than the day), and finally all the calls stopped.
R thought that because her fiance was busy with exams. But she felt her relationshp had gone wrong somewhere. Her fiance didn't inform her the date of his arrival after completing his studies.
And they met up later than R expected. It was Ramadhan and R met up with her fiance to break fast. R sensed that her fiance had changed and the meeting went awkward. Both parties had an awkward night.
R told me that she tried to patch things up but it isn't working. And she said that she's willing to give in for their sake.
I am bit surprised and shocked to hear all this. I mean, I myself have problems finding love which I thought was kind of crucial at my age, but I guess people who found love earlier isn't guaranteed to be happy.
On the other hand, another friend, E-in, is getting engaged end of this year. She met her future fiance last July and has been dating by then. She was paired up by a friend and it seems to be serious. And guess what, by next year, most probably during Chinese New Year, she'll be married.
I guess love works in a way no one understands.
First case:
My dearest best friend, Elle really likes this guy. But she knows that she can't have him. He is kind of more or less taken. But according to my friend, Elle, he gives hints at the same time has someone special. She has tried her best to ignore him but she can't seem to do that. She sometimes feel awkward and this feelings show. Like on one day, she tried to ignore his presence but the guy himself makes her notice him in every way. And on other days, he'd ignore her completely!
I adviced her to just forget about him when she told me about the girlfriend kind of knows her presence and her feelings towards her boyfriend. The girlfriend would always put on the serious and stern face whenever their paths cross. Sometimes the jelingan confuses my friend here. How does she know about her feelings towards her boyfriend? I mean is there any chance that the guy told her girlfriend about my friend here? In a way, I think it's best for my friend to forget him. She even thought of changing departments since she said that it is hard to act normal when he is around. I can only say that I wish for the best for you and hang in there.
Second case:
Long distance relationships seldom last. I was in this situation once(though it we were not that far away) but I kind of knew at that time that it would go no where but I just ignored the feeling and went on with it. But my friend - R's case is different. She got engaged before going separate ways since her fiance furthered his studies overseas.
The first 2 years were okay but R said that starting the 3rd year, communication with her fiance seemed to thin off. From receiving calls every week, it became only once a month and then once every 2 months and then only on her birthday - which on that year it became belated (a week later than the day), and finally all the calls stopped.
R thought that because her fiance was busy with exams. But she felt her relationshp had gone wrong somewhere. Her fiance didn't inform her the date of his arrival after completing his studies.
And they met up later than R expected. It was Ramadhan and R met up with her fiance to break fast. R sensed that her fiance had changed and the meeting went awkward. Both parties had an awkward night.
R told me that she tried to patch things up but it isn't working. And she said that she's willing to give in for their sake.
I am bit surprised and shocked to hear all this. I mean, I myself have problems finding love which I thought was kind of crucial at my age, but I guess people who found love earlier isn't guaranteed to be happy.
On the other hand, another friend, E-in, is getting engaged end of this year. She met her future fiance last July and has been dating by then. She was paired up by a friend and it seems to be serious. And guess what, by next year, most probably during Chinese New Year, she'll be married.
I guess love works in a way no one understands.
Am i really never good enough for you?
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