Saturday, November 27, 2004
♥ Life.. sometimes it really hurts....
I just received a phone call from a friend that I haven't contacted for quite a while due to our busy lives (what an excuse). I have known her for almost 3 years. And I did some match making while she worked in the same office with me. She called saying that sheé here within a few minutes from my office and my house. She is at her brother's house. I asked about her relationship with my colleague and she said that they are still friends. She is trying to avoid saying more than friends because she fears that something might happen on the way. And she said that she has a lot of problems. Her parents are trying to match her with one of her relatives.
Sometimes we feel that our problem is the biggest problem ever. We never tend to think of others that are really in trouble or have other problems that are ten times the burden than we have. I never thought that having a candidate for the perfect husband can be a problem too. Like I said, my friend who just called me said that she is having trouble to choose either Deen or her family’s choice.
All this while, I thought that Mia’s relationship with Deen was far past over after Mia got engaged with Farid. But I was wrong. I think that she felt bad because of putting me into a lot of trouble trying to ‘fix’ her relationship with Deen when their relationship was going downhill.
And I also didn’t know that Mia’s engagement only lasted for 3 months. Masa tu Mia masih lagi berhubung dengan Deen dan kiranya mereka rujuk semula. Sekarang timbul pula masalah lain apabila Mia akan disatukan dengan pilihan keluarganya. Dan pada ketika inilah Mia muncul kembali meminta nasihat dan pandangan I. What I can say is it’s up to you Mia. If you feel that Deen’s the person for you, try to make your family accept him. But if you feel the other way around, let go of Deen nicely. It’s a tough decision but everyone has to sacrifice sometimes even though the sacrifice made is the bitterest decision ever made. That’s why the truth hurts sometimes. In a way, whether we like it or not, we still have to face it.
And there are times where we tend to put the blame on something to calm down. In my case, I’d rather keep busy to forget the hurt and anger in myself. All the problems and hurt and anger will be kept far down inside my heart where I never realized that it’s there in my heart until I ‘accidentally’ open up the scar and wound again by a touching movie. Among the movies that have actually succeeded in making me reminisce the memories are Kuch Kuch Hota Hai and Kuliah Cinta.
There’s one part in the novel Jewel by Danielle Steel where she said that ‘sometimes the things that hurt you the most is the easiest thing to forget.’ For me, I will forget it for a while, but to be the easiest thing, probably not.
Sometimes we feel that our problem is the biggest problem ever. We never tend to think of others that are really in trouble or have other problems that are ten times the burden than we have. I never thought that having a candidate for the perfect husband can be a problem too. Like I said, my friend who just called me said that she is having trouble to choose either Deen or her family’s choice.
All this while, I thought that Mia’s relationship with Deen was far past over after Mia got engaged with Farid. But I was wrong. I think that she felt bad because of putting me into a lot of trouble trying to ‘fix’ her relationship with Deen when their relationship was going downhill.
And I also didn’t know that Mia’s engagement only lasted for 3 months. Masa tu Mia masih lagi berhubung dengan Deen dan kiranya mereka rujuk semula. Sekarang timbul pula masalah lain apabila Mia akan disatukan dengan pilihan keluarganya. Dan pada ketika inilah Mia muncul kembali meminta nasihat dan pandangan I. What I can say is it’s up to you Mia. If you feel that Deen’s the person for you, try to make your family accept him. But if you feel the other way around, let go of Deen nicely. It’s a tough decision but everyone has to sacrifice sometimes even though the sacrifice made is the bitterest decision ever made. That’s why the truth hurts sometimes. In a way, whether we like it or not, we still have to face it.
And there are times where we tend to put the blame on something to calm down. In my case, I’d rather keep busy to forget the hurt and anger in myself. All the problems and hurt and anger will be kept far down inside my heart where I never realized that it’s there in my heart until I ‘accidentally’ open up the scar and wound again by a touching movie. Among the movies that have actually succeeded in making me reminisce the memories are Kuch Kuch Hota Hai and Kuliah Cinta.
There’s one part in the novel Jewel by Danielle Steel where she said that ‘sometimes the things that hurt you the most is the easiest thing to forget.’ For me, I will forget it for a while, but to be the easiest thing, probably not.
Am i really never good enough for you?
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